Staying on budget

DIY Wedding on a Budget: Thoughtful Choices for a Meaningful Celebration

Planning a wedding on a budget doesn’t mean compromising on joy or beauty—it just means being intentional. The most impactful weddings aren’t necessarily the most expensive. They’re the ones that feel personal, welcoming, and full of heart. With a little time, creativity, and resourcefulness, you can craft a day that reflects you without draining your savings.

Start early and give yourself the gift of research. Local Facebook bridal and wedding buy/sell/trade groups are an incredible resource—not just for recommendations, but for secondhand treasures. Brides often sell or give away everything from signage and card boxes to veils and even gently worn dresses. Post in these groups with specific asks, and keep an eye out for vendor referrals, too.

One great budget-saving tip? Seek out talented people who are just starting their businesses. Whether it’s a new florist, photographer, or baker, many up-and-coming vendors are eager to build their portfolios and may offer more competitive pricing. Just be sure to meet with them first and ask thoughtful questions. A genuine connection and clear communication can go a long way.

Rethink your catering strategy—buffets are often far more budget-friendly than plated meals. You’ll save on staffing, and many caterers offer “drop-off” options that cut costs significantly. Just make sure there’s a plan in place for food presentation and cleanup. A beautiful buffet setup with well-labeled dishes can be just as elegant (and way more relaxed).

Throughout the planning process, focus on creating an experience, not impressing people with high-ticket items. I’ve performed at million-dollar weddings that felt overwhelming and disconnected from the guests. In contrast, smaller weddings with intention and warmth have left lasting impressions. Ask yourself: do you want your guests to be wowed—or truly moved by the love and community they witness?

If you want your wedding to feel one-of-a-kind, lean into specificity over generality. Think about your story. Is there a cultural tradition that reflects your heritage? A shared love of a certain book or place? Weaving these into your day—through decor, music, or rituals—can add deep meaning without requiring a huge budget.

And finally, skip the little extras that don’t actually enhance the atmosphere. Expensive party favors, monogrammed gifts for the bridal party, and custom napkins often go unnoticed. Keep your energy and resources focused on the elements that help people connect, celebrate, and remember the love that brought everyone together.